When You Become The Other Woman

Think About It Ladies........


So at first you tell your self his wife/girlfriend just isn't doing the job, so you feel some what special he is coming to you. Or You just don't care but you want the excitement and the fun with out the commitment.Either way it catches up to you. Because in the real world when you see their family pictures after you have slept with him a few times , it will sink in and hard. You see, you become the crutch for them to not deal with their problems. He says she is crazy, distant, doesn't want to have sex.... Really? Well think about it... Maybe he has walls , obviously he does if he is skirting behind her back, she feels pushed away and bingo.. Intimacy slides, resentment sets in and she thinks he is leaving her so she gets paranoid. Does this make sense to you? So my point is. If he runs with her when it gets tough, what will he do with you?

Why Woman DO Not Like Nice Guys!

Why women do not like nice guys!
Submitted by arkady on February 10, 2008 - 7:16am.
Many sources of dating advice suggest that women are not attracted to, and are not interested in, dating "nice" guys. However, few of those sources bother to explain why - why don't women find attractive that which they seem to really want and even openly ask from the opposite sex? Why is it that these women ask for a sweet, caring, genuine, generous guy, but once they meet one, they get bored so quickly and they can't wait to move on because they just feel that "there is no chemistry there."
In order to understand this fascinating phenomenon, it is crucial that you realize and remember that there is a fundamental difference between being a nice guy and being an attractive guy. Did you ever ask yourself - what does it mean being attractive to a woman? Well, in short it means being an interesting individual who has qualities that make him an interesting and a good company. Look at this concept carefully for a moment - "good" alone and in itself won't cut it. It must be good and interesting. Being good means all those positive qualities of being honest, caring, genuine, considerate, and all other traits that make a nice guy. But, how does that guy become interesting? Well, to be an interesting company, you must be confident, funny, and different from other guys. All my dating audio programs for guys are dedicated to explaining in great detail what being confident, different, and funny means. For the purposes of this article I want to suggest to you that it means anything but being "nice." If all you are is nice, this means that you are boring! You are not doing anything to challenge a woman's mind, to contribute to and openly critique her opinions, to make her laugh, to be sarcastic and tease her, and to make fun of her and yourself in an endeering and charming way that will turn your interaction with her into a fun and memorable banter. If all you do is saying "excuse me, I agree, exactly, I am sorry, are you ok? are you sure about this?" and alike, you are anything but an attractive man. You are considerate, polite, kind, and all those other great things, but you are NOT sexy to her! You don't turn her on! And without that, you can't possibly be a romantic/dating candidate.
Think about it - there are certain qualities that you expect to see in a woman! Her body must be of a certain shape. Her behavior must make her come across as gentle, elegant and feminine. Well, a woman is also looking to find certain fundamental qualities in a man that she wants to be romantically involved with. These qualities have nothing to do with being a nice guy, simply because she wants every guy she deals with socially, at work, at school or in any other setting to be nice. There has to be something else in a guy she will be attracted to, beyond being nice - he has to show that masculinity that manifests itself in confidence, sense of humor and standing out from the rest of the guys in simple but obvious ways. We just talked briefly about confidence and humor. What about being different from other guys? Well, there are quite a few ways in which you can stand out form the rest. You might be different because you have a certain rare hobby that captures your soul and consumes a lot of your time. Your hobby or hobbies excite you and reflect on your personality and your passion for doing what you enjoy so much. Seeing a man with a passion is naturally attractive to women. You may come across as a different and a better guy just because you don't get as drunk when you are out like everyone else, and you don't allow yourself to degrade to the embarassing levels of stupor like many other guys in bars and clubs. When a woman sees that you give yourself more respect by not lowering yourself to the levels of others around you, she is very likely to be intrigued by you - that guy who doesn't conform to the behavior of others and who likes to be in control of himself at all times. Perhaps there is a unique style to your appearance or perhaps you worked on your linguistic skills and you are more eloquent than the average guy out there - those are just a few other random, simple ways in which you can stand out and be more attractive to women.
So, what am I trying to say here? The bottoms line is this: being a nice guy is great and you shouldn't change that about yourself. But, you should be nice and something more than just that - that something that makes you attractive and even sexually desirable to women - you must possess the qualities that distinguish you and set forth your masculinity clearly to the opposite sex. And those qualities are your sense of humor, your confidence, and your being different from most other, average nice guys.

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Man once sang to me Look at you saving the world on your own And I wonder how things gonna be Cos the time here it passes so slow In a city of devils we live A city of devils we live Find somebody to learn Boy you gotta love someone more than yourself I can feel the fire of the city lights burn It's hard to find angels in hell Chorus Flying alone IFeel like I don't belong and I,Can't tell right from the wrong, why,Have I been here so long In a city of devils we live A city of devils we live Questions I can't seem to find To the answers I already have And you can't see the sky here tonightSo I guess I can't make my way back Chorus What if I wanted you here right now Would you fall in the fire burn me downIf I wanted you here right now Would you fall in the fire burn me down If I wanted you here right now...In a city of devils we live In a city of devils we live A city of devils we live In a city of…Chorus I don't belong Don't belong I've been here too long Too long

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How To Survive As A Single Parent

How to Survive as a Young, Single Mother
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Being on your own and trying to support your child isn't always easy. Money my be tight, living quarters are probably small and you may be lonely, but just remember to stay positive and believe in yourself.
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Step1Find a support group for others in your situation. It's hard for friends not in your situation to relate and give you the moral support you need. Being around other young single mothers helps you realize that you're not alone and you can share resources with each other as well.
Step2Look for affordable housing in a safe community that's located close to your work. If possible, live with family to save money and have a supportive atmosphere for your child.
Step3Continue your schooling if possible. Whether it be high school or college, if you can make arrangements for childcare and have the opportunity to go to school you should go. As a young single mother furthering your schooling to help assist you in getting a job is imperative
Step4Get your child on the WIC program. WIC is a federally funded program that gives low income mothers food, health care referrals and nutrition counseling if you your child is under five years old.
Step5Sign up at the local food bank and if there comes a time when you're short on money, you can stop at the food bank to get you through.
Step6Look into childcare stipends. You may qualify for aid in paying for childcare. This will help you be able to work while you keep the cost for daycare down. Daycare is especially important for a young single mother